Everyone has a life.
Everyone is busy.
However, people make time for the things they really want to attend and the people they want to see or talk to.
Just think about it for a moment: that person you wanted to see or talk to, that opportunity you went after, that experience you wanted, if your schedule was “packed” or you were “busy” you either took a bit more time during your lunch break or rearranged your schedule or woke up super early or stayed up super later or even cancelled an appointment to truly make it and achieve it.
So when someone says, they are too busy to do something, attend something, see you or talk to you, they are really saying “no” nicely without wanting to hurt your feelings. (They could also be saying “wait” as they aren’t ready to move forward just yet.)
Again, think about it from your point of view: that person you tried to avoid or that function you didn’t want to go to, what did you say to get out of it? Either you were sick, had a family emergency or you were… too busy!
Although a person’s words have meaning and can be truthful, it is more important to look at and follow a person’s actions as that will always tell the truth. Actions don’t lie as they are ingrained into our neurology from the most primal point of our being. Let’s do a science check really quickly…
We may think that people either fall into the category of being either visual, auditory or kinesthetic. However in actuality, we are ALL kinesthetic. Before we even spoke a word or heard any words, we moved and had kinesthetic experiences in our mother’s womb. That is the basis for what we do and who we are.
Also, looking even deeper into science, there is a part of our brain which is the core of our brain called the “reptilian brain” that is purely based on our feelings of hunger, sleep, sex and survival. All of these are managed by how we feel, kinesthetic experiences.
So next time someone tells you something, don’t believe it wholeheartedly. Take it with a grain of salt.
Maya Angelou said it best, “If someone shows you who they are. Believe them.”
Take care and live in the angelic light.